Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Problem people


26 September  2012   
       
Acts 15:37-40 And Barnabas wanted to take with them John called Mark. But Paul thought best not to take with them one who had withdrawn from them in Pamphyl'ia, and had not gone with them to the work. And there arose a sharp contention, so that they separated from each other; Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed away to Cyprus, but Paul chose Silas and departed, being commended by the brethren to the grace of the Lord.

There are just some people that get under your skin, they seem to know just what to say to get you upset and their timing is superb. Now it isn’t that you are wrong, but that they want what they want and when you do not give them what they want, you are the guilty party. There are even the occasion where they do not know what they want and you are still the guilty party. Then to add insult to injury because you are a Christian you have to be the one to say sorry. Then because you don’t you are accused of being un-Christian and so you just accept the blame, but find it so hard in your heart to say sorry.

So what does a good Christian do, well you simply walk away, just as Paul did when he had words with Silas, when Mark went back home. We also are told in the Bible that when we have people that are not keeping to the expectations, we simply keep away from them. We examine our actions, and we ask what could we have done differently, and maybe we could have, and we ask Jesus to forgive us first and then with His help we do things differently. Time needs to pass, others need to mature, and when Jesus moves us, we are then able to accept that we too have changed.

Be encouraged today to not beat yourself up over the actions of others.
 
David

Point to ponder: We need to move on in the grace of the Lord.

Question to consider: How do you handle contention?

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